Goodbye Facebook

It’s not me, it’s most definitely you…

Social media has turned into quite a nightmare… or is that just me? I feel like Facebook is just a cesspool of negativity every time I look at it. Sure, there’s funny memes, weird life hack videos, and it’s great for stalking people you knew 15 years ago and potential SOs of friends. It’s even a nice way to share what’s going on with friends and family that live far away and may not otherwise get to partake in your day-to-day.

But honestly, how many of your Facebook “friends” are really friends? When was the last time you saw that old high school girl friend? Or even made plans to hang out with your old crew? Who have you intentionally reached out to – no, not “liked” their picture or commented on their post – actually called or texted and had a real, genuine conversation with?

A lot of times my anxiety stems from feeling like I have no friends and I think I leaned into having Facebook “friends” as an illusion of comfort. That’s NOT healthy. I still struggle with being alone sometimes, but I’m also learning to love it. I’m getting to know ME. I’m realizing what my true hopes, goals, dreams, and aspirations are, for me, myself, and I. I’m learning to be more comfortable with a small, close friend group. I’m spending more time with family. I’m learning that I want the connections I make to be meaningful and positive.

Marie Kondo’s “spark joy” craze doesn’t just apply to physical items in our homes. I think it should apply to everything. Facebook doesn’t spark joy for me anymore (if it ever did), so I said goodbye. I purged my friends list (so don’t take it personally) and deleted the app from my phone. For now, I am keeping my account, mostly as a means to run my Color Street business, and to have Messenger to reach friends and family I would otherwise not be able to contact. As time goes on, I may delete my account all together.

It’s weird, adjusting to not having another app to mindlessly scroll through, but I am excited to see what I can accomplish with having less screen time in my life. Truly, smart phones have become addictions. Piece by piece I want to grow apart from mine and explore my creativity more. Find peace and happiness.

Goodbye, Facebook. Can’t say I’ll miss you.

*Update 3/20/19:

Since deleting Facebook I have:

⁃ Written a blog post

⁃ Deep cleaned my bathtub

⁃ Cleaned my washing machine

⁃ Done six+ loads of laundry

⁃ Put away a few loads of clean dishes

⁃ KonMari’d my bedroom/wardrobe

⁃ Visited some friends in real life

⁃ Gone to confession

⁃ Gone to Mass

⁃ Worked my Color Street business

⁃ Donated bags and boxes of clothes and misc items to St. VdP

April Showers Bring New Opportunities

Hello everyone! I know I’ve been absent for a while. A LOT has been going on. I’m finally here to fill you in.

My husband and I are making an extra effort to focus on our health and spending QUALITY time together. We have been meal prepping and exercising more. It has already made a noticeable difference. I’m less stressed about what we are going to eat, there’s less binge-snacking and binge-watching, and we’re spending more time TALKING and less time staring at screens. I’m loving what it is doing for our bodies, minds, and relationship.

I also made a HUGE leap out of my comfort zone. I am by no means a social butterfly. I’m not chatty, I don’t make videos of myself, I don’t have a huge group of friends, I don’t party every weekend. But there was something tugging at my heart for a while. I spent months overthinking as I do with everything, but I finally took a big step at the beginning of the month.

I became an Independent Stylist for Color Street! For me, this is a big deal. I’ve never been a part of an independent sales kind of company. This company focuses on one-to-one contact and relationships. So, what is Color Street? What do they sell? And why should I buy their products?

Great questions. Color Street is a new company (as in less than a year!), and it is thriving! It is constantly growing. They make and sell nail polish strips. Maybe you’ve heard of them. But what makes theirs special? Well, first of all, they are NOT wraps. They require no fancy tools, no heat, no glue. They are made with 100% real nail polish, no adhesives. They are also almost 100% dry and super easy to apply! There are over 2 dozen designs, including nail art and glitter! Each set comes with 8 different sizes (16 total strips), nail prep pads, a cuticle stick, and an adorable mini nail file. They also have french tip styles, which are always buy 1 get 1 free. All of their other styles are by 3 get 1 free.

Color Street stylists make connections and sales through nail bars. These parties can be held in person or virtually through Facebook. The awesome thing about a Facebook party is that hosts can more easily get friends to participate because they can join the party from literally anywhere as long as they have access to Facebook.

I just had my launch party last night, on Facebook. Unfortunately, I haven’t had quite the interaction I had hoped for. I am still waiting on sales. I am trying to not be discouraged, though. I am continuing to attempt to engage Facebook friends and family members through my Facebook business page and my VIP group. I am hoping once I start sending out samples, more people will get interested.

No one ever said starting a business would be easy. I’m doing my best to stay motivated. I hope April continues to bring opportunities for my husband and me. Speaking of which, he is currently in the process of possibly making a career change. Fingers crossed April brings us good news!

Hopefully this month will also bring more posts! I will try to get back into the habit of posting B&W photos!

Thanks for reading!